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Tuesday, May 11, 2010
The old cliche LOVE

Forewarn: this is a very grave issue that i'm going to blog about, so its time to condition your mind and get ready for it.

Ok just kidding. :)

The topic i'm going to blog about is love.

Transiting into love, that is.

We meet innumerable people in our life daily,

Some leave a significant mark, alas most dissipate into only good memories as well.

I have met individuals like that. You get all passionate, madly in love and being absolutely certain they are the "ones" whom you have been patiently awaiting for all this while,

only to realize both of you are incompatible or you have lost the fiery torch for them.

For the singles, they meet their "ones" and contemplate about declaring their love,

and subsequently getting lost in interminable thoughts of "should I confess and get into the risk of rejection" or "just be secretly in love and pray he/she falls in love with me."

Love isn't simple, and while it is not exactly complicated, it can be agonizing and traumatic.

Then why do we still choose to fall in love? We yearn to meet that "one" whom we are positive can brighten our day and make us feel all youthful and bubbly.

Duh. :P

I had a conversations with my close ones recently, and they got me pondering over an ex flame whom I lost contact with.

I couldn't remember the circumstances, but we moved on with life not because we weren't interested in each other, but due to peer pressure and pride.

Thinking back, the person could have been the "one". But I guess I moved on, gaining new experiences.

Hence to the singles: Treasure these random "sparks" in life, don't just safeguard your pride with layers of protection. If you fall in love, go all out for it. You will have no regrets thereafter.

And the attached? Just love (till a ripe old age coughszzzcoughs), and move on if you know its all over. After all we all know that we still can live life happily ever, even as a single.

P.S: If you wondering what happened to the person, yes, I managed to strike a conversation after many years, and I sent a message hoping to catch up.

Unfortunately. no reply was given. Well, I'm still glad I tried! :)
ZUOHAN, OUT!
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